No because of the last couple of sections.
Step number four.
Taking stock is going to be quite easy for you to understand.
So just to give you a quick overview of where we've come from we understand that is going to be pointless
working with any one in life which in context if they have not made a decision to change something about
themselves their attitudes their actions their behaviours their their beliefs.
If they haven't made a decision to change the way in which they show wop into the world and there's
nothing that you can do for them and that all the way that you're going to be able to see that they
have made a decision to change it through the actions that they take.
No.
If they're coming to you for life coach.
But yet are inconsistent in this if they're not completing the exercises that you give them if they're
not taking your guidance if they're not actioning their agreements that you make and they're not committed
and if they're not committed you've got to take stock now and assess whether this is the kind of person
that you really want to take a risk into continuing on with or not because if you do and they just do
an action anything they will slander you.
Trust me a promise.
You're the one that gets the one star reviews on Facebook on the Facebook business page or so thing
taken stock on a personal level is about where we stop in life.
So yeah we've made a decision to change or taken action.
We've committed to something.
Sometimes in life we can commit the wrong things right.
I've done this in the past.
I just would just commit to the wrong goals and just not some of the goals that we commit to that we
would perceive as being wrong are necessarily bad.
It's sometimes just a timing's thing.
I think for example year four of my life coaching or a year five of my life coach and business I've
committed to building this online academy and over a 12 month process over 12 month period of time I've
spent around about nine months trying to build websites trying to make all this online marketing stuff
happen.
Was wasn't my area of expertise now.
Guess who ended up frustrated Guess who ended up stressed.
That's right.
Me it was actually it wasn't actually until the end of the year when I'd stopped because my goodness
I'm so stressed I'm so uptight.
It's when we actually come to recognize that there is a problem inside of us there's problems going
to be stress there's going to be some sort of a motion or attachment to remember.
May be anxious sad depressed stressed.
The problem's always going to have an emotional attachment there's always going to be negative.
So if we are able to read our emotions right something not quite right here that's when we stop.
And take stock.
And this is the complete ultimate expression of personal responsibility.
Right.
Something is not working here.
What am I focussing on.
What am I prioritizing here that just isn't working.
This is about no reaching a stage where were self reflecting where were developing self control.
Were growing in maturity rather than just looking for people or for things to blame or taking control
of the process and how about something that I'm doing here that isn't working.
What isn't.
Because as we get good at taking stock we can then become able to recognize the choices that we're making.
There may not be serving us an particularly effective ways.
No.
I've shared with you some practical tools through the course the Life hours work the book the highs
of seven main life areas highlighted and to be honest with you you may be think well I can go back to
that every single time I have a problem or why not.
All right.
The problem is going to be attached to one of those seven life areas.
Right.
So you can use that template just to get clear and take stock of specifically what life area is causing
the problem.
This is what taking stock is it's about bringing perspective into our perceived problems.
It doesn't have to be complicated.
It can be so simple I promise you.
So for me taking stock as take this stock is about evaluating and assessing what's working what's not
working and then identifying potentially new opportunities.
So when I realize I'm so stressed over this Web thing I stop and ask myself some questions right.
Is this something that I really want to be doing.
And the answer was No it wasn't.
No.
Remember back in the core values section one of their final core values that I have that I explained
in then I give reference to was faith though many people in life don't like the word faith because of
the religious implications that's commonly attached to it.
I see faith as a good thing.
Faith is just the opposite of fear.
We're many people in life cling on to fear and use fear as an excuse the reasons why they're not pursuing
the things that they do.
I use faith as the excuse for doing absolutely everything for taking all actions and winner take all
action in faith of the best possible outcome the best case the best case scenario coming to pass which
doesn't always happen when it doesn't always happen.
Well I simply then do is take stock.
Why didn't it happen.
What can I do better next time.
How could I improve what new skills could allow.
Is a new goals.
Their needs are set in place.
Taking stock is just working about it has Getting clear on where it is that we're at where it is that
we actually want to be and whether the path that were currently taken is the best path is going to get
us to our ideal end destination.
If that makes sense.
So again how you apply this is entirely up to you.
But if you are in some sort of crossroads in life you know we have come from you know where it is you
want to go but you're just not perhaps quite clear on where you're at.
This is kind of where we stop and take stock.
We'll get back to life balance questionnaire.
We work so what's working for us what's serving us what's not so we can then get on to Step Five.
In the.
Which I'm going to share with you more about in the next video.